Ouch, my neck!

I ordered this baby carrier because my 5 month old is started to hurt my shoulders in the Baby Bjorn and it seemed like a good alternative. I read the reviews and it sounded great and I loved the style. I tried it on and OUCH!! Even after numerous adjustments made by myself and my husband, all of my baby's weight was being supported by the side of my neck. The shoulder strap would just scoot right over to my neck as soon as I put the baby in. My husband tried it on for himself and he said that it really didn't hurt him (in the 5 minutes he had it on), but that he could tell that none of the baby's weight was distributed to his waist and hips at all as the description claims, but all on his shoulder and neck too. I returned it the same day I got it - after trying to tweak it for over an hour. I think I'll stick with the Baby Bjorn. At least it distributes over both shoulders instead of one side of my neck.